Perfectionism is really just a mask for running away from who you are -- because you think there is a “perfect” version of you somewhere out there that isn’t flawed or weak. (Spoiler: there isn’t!) Humans love the idea of perfection because we think flawless = strong -- but what if we flip the script? What if our flaws are actually more powerful than the limited view of perfection because they lead us to innovation, growth, and an increased capacity for self-compassion? Human error directly leads to human growth, so the next time your inner critic tries to preach perfection, just remember: imperfection is powerful. 

Perfectionists tend to care a lot about how other people will judge or value their work, which leads to a fractured sense of self-trust and self-love. When other people hold your self-worth in their hands, failure can feel completely devastating. But what perfectionism doesn’t tell you is that failure will lead you on more magical adventures than a “perfect plan” ever will -- the key is to remember that you don’t have to let other people’s opinions determine your route. You get to choose, and by learning to self-validate, your ability to take risks and learn from failures will only grow.

At the end of day, perfectionism cares about one thing: your achievements. But the problem with valuing achievements more than the process is that it will blind you to so many opportunities for creativity and moments of wonder. There’s a reason why so many billionaires are unhappy -- it’s because life isn’t really about what you make; it’s about how you feel when you're making it. Creativity exists to help you experience wonder in your life so that you’re actually living it. You can absolutely value excellence and progress, but if you don’t enjoy yourself along the way, what was it all for?