If creativity is about sharing a unique or memorable view with the world, then you definitely don't belong here because your story is anything but interesting. How can your art make a mark when even you don't know what makes it stand out?
You spend a lot of time fantasizing over your future creative masterpieces, but they feel so out of reach... especially when you don't really have anything important to say.
That voice inside your head isn't actually a bully -- it's terrified of the very real possibility that you will fail, and it's doing whatever it can to keep you safe...
...but it doesn't have the whole story. Your inner critic literally believes that failure will lead to death and destruction, which is why its pull is so strong. It's not your job to cast it aside and push it down (that will only make it stronger). No, your job is to tell it a new story. Your fears are valid, but they're not all that matter in this adventure, and they don't get to dictate your choices. So, let's give your inner critic a few more insights that will help it feel secure.
I know it seems like everyone else has some wild, out-of-this-world back story, and yours feels a little… average. But let me assure you, there is nothing “average” about your life. You are the only version of you that will ever exist. No one in the entire human existence has ever lived your life, and no one will again. The combination of your thoughts, experiences, and actions are completely unique, constantly changing, and are deeply fascinating and meaningful. Even if it’s not something you particularly want to share with the world, yours is a story worth exploring -- and your voice is the best, most qualified one for the job.
Here’s a little artist secret: there’s no such thing as a completely unique idea. That’s because humans live and create together. The only way someone could have a 100% original idea is if that person grew up in complete isolation, no contact with other humans or society. Your ideas may seem small and average now, but the point of creativity isn’t to prove yourself a wunderkind. It’s to lead your mind and perspective down paths they’ve never been before, and sometimes that means learning from someone else, and then building on that knowledge, a little bit at a time. Your ideas are worth exploring, and if you trust in the process, they will lead you to life-changing breakthroughs.
Take it from me -- when you set about creating for the purpose of impressing others, or being the best, the inspiration will eventually run dry. That’s because creativity isn’t about standing out in the crowd -- it’s about diving deep inside yourself to discover truths that will transform your perspective, and encourage you to dig even deeper. But the coolest thing about authentic, creative self-exploration is that your findings will likely be universal -- the specific truths you uncover may inspire others to go on their own journey, too. You don’t influence the world by being amazing -- you get others to listen by sharing ideas that have them think, “Hey, me too!”
My name is Kolbie, and before discovering the magic of watercolor, I was a proud (and miserable) capital "P" Perfectionist.
In 2016, I was working in the White House (dream job, anyone?) and felt like a complete fraud -- the weight of my perfectionism was slowly crushing my confidence. Kind of on a whim, I picked up calligraphy and watercolor, and now, five years later, my life has turned upside-down in the best way. I went from insecure political writer to confident author, artist, and online educator. I've helped thousands of people worldwide unlock the power of their creativity, and I'm not stopping yet.
BEFORE WE GET TOO FAR INTO THIS...
Choose one childhood memory, any memory. Then, write about it in your journal, surfacing as many details as possible. Think about your thoughts, feelings, choices, consequences, relationships with those around you. What makes that memory so meaningful? Why did you choose it? How does it relate to a challenge or problem you’re experiencing now? If you could say anything to your child self, what would it be?
Build on a familiar design to spur your creativity. Either use a tutorial or a scene you’ve painted many times as a base starting point, then choose ahead of time to make three specific changes to the piece. Change the composition, the color palette, a subject or two, the perspective -- it doesn’t matter what the change is, it just matters that you’re pushing yourself to see this familiar piece with a new (unique) perspective.
Instead of making something for the purpose of showing it off, create a piece for the purpose of diving into your feelings. Start with a problem in mind, or maybe a memory you want to resurface, and then paint easy lines and shapes that reflect whatever’s on your mind. Colors, patterns, and movement will play a big role in this piece -- rather than trying to “get it right,” you’re using your skills to explore how you’re feeling and getting it out on paper. This piece is entirely about the unique quality of your experiences and feelings.
Watercolor can help you slow down and discover a new story
I was a Perfectionist through and through until I discovered watercolor. Diving into a creative practice provided a gentle way to retrain my thoughts, create moments of wonder, and build a life-changing sense of confidence and self-compassion.
I can't do the work for you, but I can de-mystify the "how" behind watercolor so you can jump straight to using it to build a healthy creative mindset and more magical life.
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